(CNN)While I was playing with my toddler at the park in 2012, another mom told me about a new show that "you have to see": "Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood." Soon, I was hearing the show's coping strategy jingles everywhere. How many of us used the song, "When you have to go potty, stop and go right away" to toilet train our kids?
Much of the animated series' appeal comes from its fidelity to Fred Rogers, who died 20 years ago this week. Rogers' show "Mister Rogers' Neighborhood," which ran from 1968 to 2001 on PBS, was a transformative force in children's media — largely because of the way it focused on children's emotional development.
While they may no longer have use for Daniel Tiger's "potty song," older kids face other challenges. And though the first children who watched the show on PBS are now tweens and teens, the show's lesson can still help them in the midst of our current mental health crisis.
'Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood,' created and produced by Angela Santomero, first aired in 2012. The first kids who watched the show are in their teens and tweens now.
I recently spoke to show creator Angela Santomero, who said she took Rogers' beloved wisdom to heart as she "set out to create 'Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood' for preschoolers — and for the teens that our first viewers have grown up to be."
Here are three messages from Daniel Tiger and Rogers that not-so-little kids still need to hear.
1. There is power in naming your emotions
Teens need the reminder that simply naming emotions is a powerful mental health strategy. According to research from neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett, people who could "distinguish finely among their unpleasant feelings — those '50 shades of feeling crappy' — were 30 percent more flexible when regulating their emotions, less likely to drink excessively when stressed, and less likely to retaliate aggressively against someone who has hurt them."
"Helping kids of any age to label and express their emotions is one of the key lessons from Fred Rogers," Santomero said. That's why so many "Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood" episodes pair a single emotion with a strategy song -- like anger ("When you feel so mad that you want to roar, take a deep breath and count to four.") or sadness ("It's OK to feel sad sometimes. Little by little you'll feel better again.").
Finding the right word to express how you are feeling inside isn't always easy. I spent several years as a middle and high school teacher, and I remember chatting with a teen who said she was "so angry" with her best friend, but she didn't know why.
Soon we began to talk about the college process, and she revealed that her friend had outscored her on the SAT. What she was really feeling, she realized, was jealousy, self-doubt and worry about the future. Once she could name that, her anger "evaporated." When you can identify what you are feeling and why, it's easier to figure out