How to throw the best virtual graduation party

Julianne Ross, CNN Underscored
Fri May 1, 2020

With the end of the school year fast approaching and social distancing guidelines still in place, high schools and universities across the country have started canceling their graduation ceremonies. While this is an important step to slow the spread of covid-19, it's also a blow to students who've looked forward to celebrating the past four years of hard work before heading to college or into the workforce.

Luckily, the class of 2020 doesn't have to risk its health to honor its achievements.

Thanks to the internet, it's easy to host a virtual graduation party — and virtual birthday or any other kind of party, for that matter — without breaking any social distancing rules.

"While virtual parties may seem intimidating at first, celebrating life events and maintaining normalcy is so important for all of us right now," says Zaria Zinn, a Celebration Expert at Evite. "If you're just able to bring the most important people together for the grad on their special day, then your virtual party will be a success."

Here's everything you need to throw a virtual graduation party — no tech savvy required.

Streaming tech

Stream the party online with this tech

All any virtual party really requires is solid Wi-Fi, a webcam and the video chat service of your choice.

Google Hangouts is free and readily available. When it comes to big parties, though, Seri Kertzner, chief party officer at Little Miss Party, says that "Zoom is the best." It's free to sign up, though unpaid plans limit group meetings to 40 minutes. For $14.99 a month, meetings can be as long as 24 hours. Be sure to use a password to protect entrance to your party, and don't publicly post the information to avoid virtual party crashers.

"For the best virtual event setup," Zinn says, "we recommend making yourself comfortable in a room with natural lighting and strong internet connection, with your device camera about eye level."

Kertzner also offered tips on making sure the streaming itself goes smoothly. "Zoom needs a moderator," she says. "This person can control who is on mute, who can participate in the chat, etc. This will be important because Zoom can get a bit rowdy if everyone is talking. Assign a family member that is home with you to be on top of this."

Of course, a video platform is no good without a webcam. The cameras built into laptops (especially Macbooks) often leave much to be desired, so it's not a bad idea to invest in a higher quality device to make sure guests can see you clearly. Here are reliable webcams that will suit nearly anyone's needs:

PAPALOOK PA452 Web Cam with Microphone ($79.99; amazon.com)

PAPALOOK PA452 Web Cam with Microphone

Webcams are sold out nearly across the board, but you can still snag this model from Amazon — shipping on May 8. It's compatible with both Macs and PCs, and features well-reviewed automatic low-light correction.

If you plan to connect from your phone or tablet, you'll also definitely want a stand so you can stream hands-free. We like these options:

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Joby GripTight One GorillaPod Stand ($34.99; bhphotovideo.com)

Joby GripTight One GorillaPod Stand

Joby's popular stand has a swiveling mount and flexible legs that can be wrapped around pretty much anything. It's also versatile and compact, perfect for stashing away when not in use (or shooting videos on the go when social distancing ends).

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UBeesize Extendable Tripod Stand with Bluetooth Remote ($29.99; amazon.com)

UBeesize Extendable Tripod Stand with Bluetooth Remote

This is a more traditional stand than the Joby, featuring a familiar tripod design that extends to 51 inches.

Invitations

Invites and evites for all

No party can start without an invitation — and, as Zinn adds, "using a festive invitation ensures that your party feels like a party." Tell guests about the festivities with an online invite from Paperless Post or Evite, or even via snail mail with something from Paper Source. Whichever method you choose, be sure to include the meeting ID and/or link for the party plus the timing for any activities.

Grad Props ($14.99 to $79.99, based on number of guests; evite.com)

Grad Props

This digital invitation lets you include a link to the video chat location, which will streamline the process. "Having the chat linked directly on the invitation makes it very user friendly if you're inviting different generations to graduation," says Zinn. It's also animated!

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Grad Cap Graduation Party Invitation (Starting at $1.48 per card based on number printed; papersource.com)

Grad Cap Graduation Party Invitation

Snail mail is safe, according to the CDC, and could be a nice way to make guests feel more connected during social distancing. We love this bright and colorful design featuring a mortarboard being tossed into the air.

What to wear

Dresses, caps and more

Use this as a special occasion to get out of your sweats, at least from the waist up (Nordstrom has tons of great summery dresses and dress shirts) or simply top your loungewear with festive grad-themed accessories.

Rachel Parcell Floral A-Line Dress ($78.23, originally $149; nordstrom.com)

Rachel Parcell Floral A-Line Dress

A romantic, fluttery chiffon dress that's girly without being too cutesy.

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Chelsea28 Faux Wrap Dress ($74.50, originally $149; nordstrom.com)

Chelsea28 Faux Wrap Dress

A slightly fancier number that's made with a stretchy material and features a bright print perfect for spring.

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Graduation Head Bopper ($3.99; partycity.com)

Graduation Head Bopper

No mortarboard, no problem. Pick up some of these "head boppers" for the grad and send a few to guests to keep the theme going.

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Ultimate Grad Night Party Outfit Kit ($10.79; partycity.com)

Ultimate Grad Night Party Outfit Kit

This kit comes with an inflatable graduation cap, lei, sparkly "grad" glasses and a beaded mortarboard necklace.

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nobrand Class of 2020 Graduation T-Shirt (Starting at $14.99; amazon.com)

nobrand Class of 2020 Graduation T-Shirt

Throw in a funny shirt to help lighten the mood. You could even send a shirt to everyone invited, or ask them all to buy one if they want so that you can take a tiled zoom screenshot of everyone wearing the same shirt.

Themes and decorations

Balloons and more

"You can never go wrong by choosing a theme, especially for virtual parties," Zinn says. "This way, people can easily participate despite the social distance."

Put some big, bold decorations up in the area you plan to stream. You can also mail props that everyone can wave on camera. "Think crazy hats, silly hair or something unique to the grad," says Zinn. "Choose a digital invitation that accurately sets the tone for your theme, and encourage everyone to participate in whatever way they can."

Class of 2020 Graduation Star Balloon ($2.99; partycity.com)

Class of 2020 Star Balloon

This 19-inch star-shaped balloon is reusable and comes in a variety of colors, in case you attend more than one graduation party. Party City also has tons of balloons in different school color combinations so you can show personalized school spirit.

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Congrats Grad Graduation Decorating Kit ($14.99; partycity.com)

Congrats Grad Graduation Decorating Kit

Go all out with this decorating kit, which comes with three tissue poms, a large "Class of 2020" banner and shiny streamers to hang from the ceiling. The kit comes in nine colors, so you can get one that best matches the grad's school colors.

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Air-Filled Silver Done Letter Balloon Kit ($9.99; partycity.com)

Air-Filled Silver Done Letter Balloon Kit

Everything a virtual party balloon should be: simple, to the point and easily visible via webcam.

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Congrats Foil Gold Balloon ($5.99; target.com)

Congrats Foil Gold Balloon

Another bold balloon design perfect for the occasion.

Activities

Music, games and more

"Incorporating an activity or game is a great way to really get everyone engaged in your virtual graduation party," Zinn says. To that end, Kertzner recommends setting aside a time for everyone to toast to the new grad together. Have everyone bring a drink of their choice to raise their glass to the class of 2020.

If multiple grads will be virtually attending the party, it would also be fun to designate a time for everyone to toss their caps in the air. And "if you were planning on allowing speeches or showing videos," Zinn says, "you can still set aside time for this. Just ask your guests to mute their mics as you're honoring the grad."

Other expert-recommended activities include karaoke (Zinn recommends that one person shares the lyrics on their screen while another sings along), recreating the latest TikTok dances or streaming from the kitchen while cooking a celebratory dessert together.

Black Graduation Cap ($1.99; partycity.com)

Black Graduation Cap

This inexpensive cap features a cardboard mortarboard, perfect for decorating. You can send caps to all the guests for a group arts and crafts project. Have everyone decorate their graduation caps during the party and then toss them at the same time. Or, if you want to splurge for a higher quality cap in a variety of colors, you can grab this Adult Graduation Cap ($12.95; amazon.com).

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JBL Flip 5 Portable Bluetooth Speaker ($99.95, amazon.com)

JBL Flip 5 Portable Bluetooth Speaker

Perfect for a dance party, and something the grad can also take with them to their dorm.

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Never Have I Ever Family Edition ($24.95; amazon.com)

Never Have I Ever Family Edition

For those who want a more low-key activity, this is a family friendly version of the classic game perfect for the new grad who thinks they've done it all. (We've also rounded up a list of the best family puzzles and games).

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BlueFire Wireless 4 in 1 Bluetooth Karaoke Microphone ($25.99; amazon.com)

BlueFire Wireless 4 in 1 Bluetooth Karaoke Microphone

Skip singing into a hairbrush and take virtual karaoke up a notch with this colorful mic.

Graduation gifts

What to get your grad

Graduating is a huge step in any student's life, so mark the occasion with a gift that looks toward the future — their future, and the end of this difficult time for the country as well. "For grads, how lovely would it be to get them a gift card to Amazon, their favorite restaurant or shop online?" says Kerntzer. "They are going to need the money when they leave home for college or to start their real life post-college, and that would be such a great and efficient way to kick off the next chapter of their life, post-coronavirus."

Zinn adds: "It's important to treat virtual graduations just like in-person ones, which means the standard gifting rules apply. Consider cash, gift cards, subscriptions or a donation to a cause they care about if you'd like to avoid shipping."

Or consider other grad-friendly gifts tailored to the next stage of their lives:

"Oh, the Places You'll Go" by Dr. Seuss ($10.99; target.com)

"Oh, the Places You'll Go" by Dr. Seuss

The quintessential Dr. Seuss book for graduates of any age. Be sure to write words of advice for the grad!

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Away Carry-On Suitcase ($225; away.com)

Away Carry-On Suitcase

A reminder that even if things are scary now, they still have plenty of time to explore the world.

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One Line A Day: A Five-Year Memory Book ($15.26; amazon.com)

One Line A Day: A Five-Year Memory Book

There's no doubt that the next five years of their life will significantly shape their future. This simple journal will help them keep tabs on the journey for posterity.

We've also compiled a long list of gift ideas for kids of all ages, so you can celebrate whether your grad is finishing kindergarten or college. "Graduation is a major milestone," Zinn says, "so ultimately, you just want to make sure your guest of honor takes away great memories of the celebration."

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