Editor’s Note: Multiple avalanches forced Yasmine Habash to evacuate the Langtang area in Nepal, where she was searching for her mother, and return to Kathmandu, according to a Facebook post from her brother, Khaled.
In the stillness of night, Yasmine Habash looks upward at an almost full moon. It shines brighter than any of the bulbs on the hotel grounds.
She gazes skyward and hopes her mother, Dawn, can see the same light.
Yasmine, 31, arrived in the Nepalese capital nine days after an enormous earthquake rocked this Himalayan nation. From the Turkish Airlines flight from Istanbul, she saw the moon outside. Bright. Beautiful. Just like her mother, she thought.
She peered out the airplane window and whispered: “I’m coming, Mumma. I’m coming.”
Her mother, Dawn Habash, 57, hasn’t been heard from since the quake hit.
Yasmine waited several days after the quake to hear from the woman who gave birth to her, the woman she calls her best friend. Then she decided she couldn’t just sit on the couch in front of a computer, playing out scenarios in her head.
She had to do everything she could to find her mom – and that meant coming here.
Yasmine arrived in Nepal early Tuesday morning. Though she wanted to hop on a helicopter at noon, she knows she has to go to the quake-devastated region equipped for what might await her.
So she’s waiting until early Wednesday morning, Kathmandu time, to head to one of the most picturesque valleys in the Himalayas. At least it was, until the Earth shook and rattled.
Much of Langtang is now shattered, covered in a blanket of muck from a landslide. Up to 600 trekkers and their guides and porters were reported missing there after the magnitude-7.8 earthquake. The bodies of about 100 people have been recovered from the region that lies about 40 miles north of Kathmandu.
An ‘unfathomable time’
Yasmine Habash was on a mini-vacation in Idaho, away from her home in Juneau, Alaska, when the world trembled and changed. She received several late-night calls from friends in India but thought nothing of it. Often, her friends forgot the time difference.
The next morning, she had a text from her 33-year-old brother, Khaled: “Call me when you wake up.”
In the next few hours, she learned about the tragedy unfolding in Nepal, a country she knew well from her travels with her mother.
Many years ago, Dawn Habash embarked on a journey of self-discovery. Her spirituality led her to India and Nepal, and her daughter grew up influenced by her mother’s way of life.
They were mother and daughter but also the best of friends, two women who traveled every year to the subcontinent in search of harmony and tranquility. They both loved being in this part of the world. Their last trip took them to the western Indian state of Rajasthan, up to Dharamsala, the capital of the Tibetan government in exile, and to the Hindu holy cities of Haridwar and Rishikesh.
Yasmine drifted on a canoe in the water in Idaho and looked upward to the sky. “I know you are OK,” she whispered to her mother.
But in the hours and days that followed, Yasmine and Khaled watched the news as the death toll rose steadily. She saw the maps that outlined the worst-affected parts of Nepal. Langtang was so close to the epicenter.
“That’s when it hit me,” Yasmine says.
She and Khaled had both traveled to this region. They knew there were areas in the mountains that were hard to access, places so remote it took four days to walk to a phone or Internet connection. They kept thinking: “She’s strong. She will survive.”
Dawn’s independence, strength and kindness has always inspired her children. So has her curiosity about the world. She began traveling solo at age 19, says Khaled. Because of her, he says, he’s visited more than 50 countries himself.
Khaled, who lives in Portland, Maine, is trying to get his head and heart around this “unfathomable time.” He yearns for news about their mother as Mother’s Day approaches, just as he prepares for the birth of his second child, a daughter, who is due any day now.
Fighting tears to Kathmandu
Dawn Habash met her husband at an English college. She saw herself as the country bumpkin from Maine. He was the dashing, suave Damascus-born gentleman who’d settled in Saudi Arabia. She fell madly in love and moved there to be his wife.
“He swept her off her feet,” says Yasmine.
Dawn lived in Saudi Arabia for 12 years, “not an easy place to live as a Western woman,” Khaled says. Another testament to her strength.
In the years since their parents split up, Dawn transformed herself as a yoga and Pilates instructor. Though she kept traveling, she built her new life in Augusta, Maine.
Recent budget cuts meant a lost job at a wellness center, though, and Dawn seized the opportunity to take a long sojourn in India. By March, summer was descending fast, and she decided to return to Nepal for her fourth visit.
Yasmine last spoke with her mother on April 17. She wishes now the conversation had been less mundane. They talked about Dawn’s house and unpaid bills she needed to address.
No matter. Yasmine looked forward to seeing her mother soon. Dawn had already bought a ticket to leave Nepal on April 29, and Yasmine was planning to pick her up at Boston’s Logan Airport. The two would spend 36 hours together in Boston before Dawn would head back home to Maine.
But April 29 came and went.
Thanks to a Facebook page, Langtang Missing/Found People, they’ve been able to recreate her path and determine where she was – within a three-hour walk – when the quake hit, Khaled says.
They’ve heard from people who saw their mom right before she embarked on her journey. They’ve connected with those who had conversations with Dawn and walked with her along the way. An Italian woman forwarded breathtaking photographs she took of Dawn the day before the quake. Their mother appears serene, looking out at the mountains in the country that’s repeatedly called her back.
“So we know where she was – exactly where we did not want her to be,” Yasmine says. “Based on that information, I wonder if other people would stop searching, but I can’t stop.”
Yasmine contacted search-and-rescue experts and asked them to send her a checklist of everything she would need to go to a disaster zone. Tent. Stove. Fuel. Food. Medicine.
She has with her a few clothing items of her mother’s – a sports bra and two kurtas, the long Indian shirts women wear – to assist search dogs, in case she finds a team to help her.
Before leaving the United States, she messaged her boyfriend and asked if he would join her. The answer was immediate: “Yes.”
Even though she’s exactly where she needs to be, Yasmine fought tears all the way to Kathmandu.
Doing all she can
Yasmine will board a helicopter early Wednesday to fly to Langtang. She will be dropped off at around 11,000 or 12,000 feet, her brother says, his only worry being how well she adjusts to the altitude.
She has enough supplies to last her a week. She is not sure what she will do to survive after that.
But she knows one thing. She cannot give up.
And her brother sits in Maine, his phone beside him, awaiting her every call and satellite text.
“I don’t know how I will leave that area without her,” Yasmine says. “I don’t think I can.”
She gazes again at the moon, full just two days ago and becoming smaller by the hour.
She’s bracing herself for what she might find in Langtang. Her only comfort now is that she’s doing everything possible to bring their mumma home.