Pedophilia a growing problem throughout Europe
August 26, 1996
Web posted at: 7:00 p.m. EDT
From Correspondent Bill Delaney
BERLIN (CNN) -- A profoundly disturbing child-sex case
unfolding in Belgium has drawn the world's attention to the
problem of child molestation.
In turn, that attention has increased interest in an upcoming
international child exploitation conference to begin Tuesday
in Stockholm, Sweden. Officials and journalists from 130
countries will attend the conference.
While the problem of pedophilia has so far been studied
mostly in Asia, it is a growing problem in a number of
European countries as well, including Germany.
CNN met with one German, an apparently mild-mannered,
intelligent man in his mid-30s. He is a pedophile who
throughout his adult life has had sexual relationships with
boys as young as 11.
"Years ago, I had the illusion I could do something to stop
it," he said. "Now I know it can't be stopped."
-- A confessed pedophile
"Years ago, I had the illusion I could do something to stop
it," he said. "Now I know it can't be stopped."
In Germany, sex with anyone under 14 is illegal.
Nonetheless, experts say, pedophilia is on the increase, in
part because as traditional male-female roles have broken
down, more men seek relationships in which they are
unquestionably in charge.
"Sexuality always has something to do with power," said sex
counselor Christian Spoden. "The major difference between
grown-ups and children is that children cannot give informed
consent."
In Germany, as in most other places, pedophilia is handled
mainly as a crime rather than an illness. Cutting down sex
tourism, especially in Asian countries like Thailand, has
become a new focus for law enforcement. Last year, more
Germans than ever before were arrested for having sex with
children outside of Germany.
The problem with the strategy of just arresting pedophiles,
experts say, is that putting police pressure on sex
offenders, whether in or out of Germany, doesn't change much.
In a society with so few taboos left, many pedophiles end up
feeling that they are being victimized by society for having
questionable sexual inclinations.
The German man CNN met says he considers pedophilia a curse
that led to his suicide attempt in jail. At the same time,
he firmly believes boys as young as eight years old want sex,
and he says he has never forced a child to do anything.
His attitude is typical among pedophiles, experts say, and is
evidence that Germany needs more programs to treat
pedophilia, not punish it.
Some believe that Germany and other countries should also
stop sending mixed signals to pedophiles -- for example, in
Germany, magazines with photos of nude children are readily
available on news stands.
Although publishers insist that the photos are simply a
portrayal of innocent naturism, their detractors say that
such publications promote the sexual abuse of children.
Do the children pictured know that they get published in such
a magazine? we asked Spoden. "I very strongly believe they
don't know that they are in this context, of this magazine,
which is of course used pornographically," he said. "For
pedophiles. We know that."
In Germany, it is difficult to define acceptable social
values in a society that many say long ago lost its
innocence.
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