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Do men really want to get married?

"Well, what do you think?" his dad asked. Brian Lohse knew exactly what his father was getting at.

updated Thu Jul 09 2009 19:06:37

Do men really want to get married?

"Well, what do you think?" his dad asked. Brian Lohse knew exactly what his father was getting at.

updated Thu Jul 09 2009 12:32:22

What's so wrong with being selfish?

There's no better way to get everybody fighting than to bring up the "having kids" or "not having kids" debate. The so-called "mommy wars" are a surefire way to make everybody defensive!

updated Tue Jul 07 2009 08:48:18

When your biggest problem is YOU!

It's not like I'm shooting myself in the foot," said Whitney. "It's more like I'm using my entire body for target practice. With guns in both hands."

updated Mon Jul 06 2009 15:19:07

Why marrying for money isn't a bad idea

There's a new book out called "Smart Girls Marry Money: How Women Have Been Duped Into the Romantic Dream -- And How They Are Paying For It," by Elizabeth Ford and Daniela Drake.

updated Thu Jul 02 2009 10:33:13

Clark Howard: New car today can be cheaper than used one

Are you one of the seemingly few Americans in the market for a car? There are more of you out there than you might think.

updated Thu Jul 02 2009 09:19:28

When his parents hate you

For the first two years of my relationship with my Large Greek Boyfriend, his mom didn't acknowledge me by name. I was simply, "The Girl."

updated Wed Jul 01 2009 09:49:19

Is narcissism keeping you single?

It's no secret that people are getting married later these days than in previous generations, and in this culture of hook-ups and "modern female dating anxiety," we're at no loss for theories that explain why.

updated Tue Jun 30 2009 13:05:16

Adventures in adult sex education

Nine middle-aged men and women are sitting in a circle in a cluttered, colorful classroom in a church annex in Austin.

updated Tue Jun 30 2009 08:58:16

Marital combat at 65 mph -- with our daughter in the backseat

When my eldest child was about 5, my marriage went through a really rocky patch. My husband and I were always mad at each other; talking about our problems or working on solutions was beyond us.

updated Mon Jun 29 2009 09:24:41

What do you do if your significant other becomes a smoker?

My boyfriend just came back from a semester abroad in Paris -- and he came back a smoker. I am not a smoker. Never have been, never will be.

updated Fri Jun 26 2009 10:18:18

Love, loss and what I ate

I just finished reading "Love, Loss, and What I Wore" for the 219th time. It's a quirky little autobiography in which the utterly charming Ilene Beckerman recalls her life's defining moments through the wardrobe choices she's made -- from Brownie uniform to bridal veil.

updated Fri Jun 26 2009 09:49:47

The worst breakup lines ever

Nowhere is the difference between men and women so glaring as when it comes down to the demise of a relationship. Specifically, the unexpected, unwanted, one-sided break-up otherwise known as the dumping.

updated Thu Jun 25 2009 11:06:46

9 ways to keep your marriage healthy

First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes decades of time together strewn with a minefield of potential relationship wreckers. It's a wonder that anyone ends up walking off into the sunset, hand-in-wrinkled-hand, with a silver-haired mate. What do those geriatric lovebirds know that you don't?

updated Wed Jun 24 2009 18:56:08

Why men cheat -- his version

So, let's talk infidelity. Many ladies want to know why it is men cheat.

updated Tue Jun 23 2009 14:34:06

Nagging-- how to be effective

We all hate to be nagged.

updated Mon Jun 22 2009 13:19:19

When does a couple become a family?

My grandparents are celebrating their 60th wedding anniversary this summer with a big party of family and long-time friends. I'll be flying to St. Louis with my fiancé, my sister's flying in from Austin, and my parents will be visiting from their home in Germany.

updated Fri Jun 19 2009 08:52:03

Adopted by a man who used to date my mom

The summers of my youth were filled with the kinds of activities that were common to every kid in the 80s but are considered almost death-defying these days: tree climbing, bike riding without a helmet, and daylong road trips spent in the backseat of the family car, where we bounced around like Super Balls, nary a seat belt in sight.

updated Thu Jun 18 2009 10:12:35

Why NOT to settle in relationships

When I questioned a friend about why she was marrying a guy whom she found only mildly attractive, didn't enjoy having sex with and wasn't in love with, she told me this: "Marriage isn't about love, it's about finding the person who gets on your nerves the least."

updated Thu Jun 18 2009 08:54:05

Clark Howard: Switch cellular provider and save big

Are you looking for an easy way to reduce your monthly budget? Look no further than your cell phone bill.

updated Wed Jun 17 2009 15:11:52

Is cheating ever deserved?

Much has been written in the media about men cheating on their wives. We have the tale of two Jo(h)ns: John Edwards, whose wife, Elizabeth Edwards, appeared on "Oprah" recently to promote her new book, "Resilence," in which she addresses her husband's much publicized affair, and Jon Gosselin, costar of the hit TLC reality show "Jon & Kate Plus 8," whose rumored affair has become tabloid fodder.

updated Mon Jun 15 2009 12:03:44

Dad feels cheated on Father's Day booty

One Mother's Day, I bought my wife what she had wanted for years -- a weeping cherry tree -- and I threw in a bird bath, so that when the tree matures, our feathered friends can happily splash and drink under its loving protection.

updated Mon Jun 15 2009 11:16:59

Mourning the death of single-girl friendship

I'm getting married in a little over two months, and though this is a happy, exciting time in my life, there's a bittersweetness. It started when I moved to New York a year and a half ago to be with my boyfriend.

updated Fri Jun 12 2009 10:13:47

Love expert Steve Harvey analyzes the male mind

Attention single ladies! Comedian Steve Harvey, the best-selling author of "Act Like a Lady, Think Like Man" and a self-professed expert on manhood, is here to take you inside the male mind.

updated Thu Jun 11 2009 15:04:31

Housework wars -- some strategies

The other day I realized my living room carpet had disappeared. In its place was one big fruit-juice-, play-dough-, and hairball-stained mat.

updated Thu Jun 11 2009 09:19:06

What secrets to reveal to your honey

How much do you really need to know?

updated Tue Jun 09 2009 14:37:28

Sex and other perks of empty nesting

Jane Shure wasn't surprised by her grief -- the sense of deep loss, the resonating silence in the house -- when her youngest daughter left for college; what shocked her was how quickly it dissipated.

updated Tue Jun 09 2009 12:10:23

Getting him to say the 'L' word

It's never easy -- or emotionally healthy -- to try to make a guy fall in love with you, but that's not what this article is about. This is about the guy who already loves you, and how you can encourage him to finally say it already.

updated Tue Jun 09 2009 09:43:17

Tips for refinancing your mortgage

Brace yourself -- there's actually some good news about the economy.

updated Mon Jun 08 2009 09:56:04

Romance difficult with three in the bed

I think something has come between us," my husband jokes from the other side of our bed.

updated Fri Jun 05 2009 09:28:18

I don't love your dog -- and you can't make me!

Manhattan's wealthier citizens had decamped for their summer homes, leaving the rest of us with room to breathe and stroll and enjoy summer in the greatest city in the world.

updated Thu Jun 04 2009 10:13:41

Your BFF 'unfriended' you -- now what?

Recently, I discovered that one of my best friends had ditched me after I logged onto Facebook and found her profile had disappeared from my page.

updated Thu Jun 04 2009 09:09:30

Clark Howard: Debt-settlement firms -- help or hindrance?

Have you seen those ads being run by the debt-settlement outfits on bad late-night TV? Their promise is always the same -- to reduce your credit card debt to just pennies on the dollar without making you file for bankruptcy!

updated Mon Jun 01 2009 12:19:35

He's laid off, you're not -- so now what?

The economic crisis continues unabated: the stock market is at its lowest in twelve years, unemployment is at its highest in decades, and nobody knows how bad it's going to get. Your 401K might be tanking, but canned food will always be valuable. And so will the shoulders of those you love and who love you back, even if, at this moment, some shoulders have to bear a greater weight than others.

updated Mon Jun 01 2009 11:22:08

Father and daughter handle grief with gadgets

After my mom died, we bought home electronics.

updated Mon Jun 01 2009 10:20:28

Customer service 'vigilantes' target executives

Rachel Hunt has encountered it all: automated operators, interminable phone trees, customer service representatives who've "never heard of" widely advertised promotions.

updated Mon Jun 01 2009 09:14:01

Why this mom loves Mondays

Last Saturday I awoke to sunlight, birdsong and the tantalizing aroma of coffee. Judging from the evidence, I had overslept. Either that or I was dreaming. I sighed with dozy pleasure and counted my blessings: I was alone, it was the weekend, and my two young children were downstairs with their father.

updated Fri May 29 2009 09:32:46

When sexual bullying turns deadly

Bullying takes place in every school and playground in our country. But what some parents see as a typical challenge of growing up is becoming more serious than ever before.

updated Thu May 28 2009 13:15:03

How NOT to move in together

Whether you're getting married or have decided to live in (gasp!) sin, the decision to cohabitate is one of the most nerve-wracking, potentially fight-provoking, all-around-scariest things you will do as a couple. Here are some pitfalls to avoid:

updated Thu May 28 2009 09:23:05

Fake check scammers hunt for victims

Thousands of Americans learn a painful lesson in banking every day: Waiting for a check to clear and then getting access to the money from a bank doesn't mean the check has really cleared.

updated Tue May 26 2009 09:11:27

When your friendships go wrong

She was a true kindred spirit --until she revealed your secrets to a roomful of people or "forgot" to invite you to her birthday dinner. Experts advise on what to do when a friend's behavior turns foul.

updated Fri May 22 2009 10:36:50

Could you be having an emotional affair?

A client I'll call Sharon knew that something was missing in her marriage. She and Robert used to be passionate about each other, she said, but after 12 years and two children, she felt removed. Robert never asked her about work or what she was worried about or felt like doing. She was no longer attracted to him, and they rarely spent time alone together.

updated Thu May 21 2009 09:52:20

The downside of online dating

Though there's still a certain inexplicable stigma attached to it, I am a huge proponent of online dating. I met my long-term boyfriend that way and the majority of weddings I've been to over the past couple years have been for couples who've met via the Internet.

updated Thu May 21 2009 09:33:36

Clark Howard: Can China own us?

Back in the 1970s, Americans saved 14 cents out of every dollar. But as the years wore on, our savings rate dropped and we bought more than we could afford when it came to housing, furniture, TVs, cars -- just about everything!

updated Tue May 19 2009 16:43:01

Unconventional and unforgettable dads

Oprah Winfrey often says that moms have the hardest job in the world, but plenty of fathers carry the burden of raising a child all by themselves. In fact, 2.5 million single fathers in the United State are doing it all-- juggling schedules, putting food on the table and going to school plays or soccer games -- single-handedly.

updated Tue May 19 2009 15:20:17

Becoming a dad -- lonely, funny and scary

It's nearly impossible to explain to the uninitiated the enormousness of parenthood, the all-encompassing giganticness of sharing your home with a baby.

updated Mon May 18 2009 10:12:35

How 10 women met their last boyfriend

When you're single, meeting eligible men can be kind of frustrating. Yes, you can go to bars, try online dating, or stalk pet-owners at the dog park, but if you tried your usual tricks and now feel like you've depleted your options, have no fear!

updated Fri May 15 2009 08:18:39

How to care for your parents and keep your sanity

I once attended a Navajo blessing ceremony, held in a tepee on the red sand of the Sonoran desert.

updated Thu May 14 2009 08:16:47

Translating 8 dating one-liners

I recently read Jeff Mac's very funny book, "Manslations," which is basically a phrase book for ladies to help us decipher the language of lads.

updated Mon May 11 2009 10:25:17

How new moms can deal with tricky relationships

Teething rings, pacifiers, Mylicon drops: When your baby is difficult and cranky, there are plenty of tools at your disposal to set things right. But what can you do when the grown-ups in your life act like uncooperative, whiny children? No matter how hard you look, you won't find a pacifier big enough to hush your difficult mother-in-law or cranky hubby.

updated Fri May 08 2009 18:06:03

How to talk to your kids about sex

When your child asks where babies come from, do you break a sweat and blame it on the stork? Have you had a conversation about oral sex, masturbation or contraception with your teen? If you haven't started "the talk" with your child, sex therapist Dr. Laura Berman says you could be making a big mistake.

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