(MayoClinic.com) About half of all men and a third of all women in the United States will receive a cancer diagnosis at some time in their lives. A cancer diagnosis often comes with little warning. Here, Edward Creagan, M.D., a cancer specialist at Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minn., offers his advice on what to expect and how to cope after a cancer diagnosis.
I would tell him or her to:
This depends on the type of cancer, its stage and the treatment options that are available. There are many different types of cancer and not all require an oncologist. For example, some cancers, such as basal cell skin cancers, can be surgically removed and have virtually no likelihood of recurring. Other cancers, such as certain thyroid tumors, are better treated by thyroid specialists, as these doctors treat those types of cancers much more often than oncologists. For the vast majority of cancers, it's always a good idea to at least consult an oncologist to get his or her opinion. Discuss with your doctor who is the best specialist for your type of cancer.Is it a good idea to seek a second opinion after a cancer diagnosis?
It's always reasonable to seek a second opinion from an oncologist. You may wish to see someone at a center that specializes in cancer care. In the United States, this might be one of the National Cancer Institute-designated cancer centers around the country. Typically these centers are part of a university or large medical center. While second opinions are very reasonable, don't waste time by going to six or seven different cancer centers to see several doctors who may all tell you the same thing. If the two opinions are similar, it's very likely that all other cancer specialists will tell you the same thing.What qualities should you look for in a doctor?
Look for a doctor who:
Make the relationship with your doctor a working partnership. The best treatment relationship is a proactive, participatory one.What should you consider when discussing treatment options?
When discussing treatment options with your doctor, understand that:
Ask your doctor what the treatment will accomplish. For example, the doctor's statement that treatment will increase survival by 50 percent sounds great. But if 50 percent means increasing life from eight weeks to 12 weeks, and those remaining weeks are spent vomiting and battling nausea, weakness and fatigue, maybe you haven't gained much.Don't all cancer treatments have awful side effects?
Not necessarily. Cancer treatments do have side effects, but most are predictable. Your doctor can outline a plan to prevent many side effects and otherwise treat or lessen others. In general, side effects are reversible, and helping you cope with them should be a focus of your doctor.
Take the potential side effects into consideration when choosing a treatment, but also know that most aren't as bad as you've heard. Ask your doctor what you can expect. How sick are you going to be? How much energy are you going to have during treatment? If you work 50 hours a week now, will you be able to work 50 hours a week during treatment? Will you be able to work 20 hours? Find out the answers to these questions. Treatment is your decision.What role can your family and friends play?
They may have the best of intentions, but family and friends may overwhelm you with their research efforts. And they can be overly enthusiastic in advocating aggressive treatment when they don't fully understand the side effects and outcomes. But friends and family are crucial to survival. Numerous studies have correlated cancer survival with social contacts. But know your limits. It's OK to take a rest and regroup. Set your priorities and acknowledge your limitations.
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