Friday, May 25, 2007
MIA in plain sight
The other morning, I saw my father's face on the train. Dad died 11 years ago, but I came across a man who could have been my father had fate dealt Dad a different hand.

The first thing I noticed about the man on the train was that he was he appeared to be a Vietnam Veteran, and proud of his service. On the back of his dirty jean jacket was a huge Marine Corps patch and other military patches. One that particularly caught my eye said: "In Memory of the 58,000 brothers who never returned from Vietnam 1962-1975."

My dad was an Army Green Beret and returned from his three combat tours in Vietnam with a couple of bronze stars and dozens of memories he never talked about.

This thin little man on the train was about my dad's age, with long hair, a scraggly beard. He was carrying on a conversation with himself and swatting at an imaginary fly. When there was a lull in his conversation, I caught his eye and said hello. He mumbled back, but didn't look at me. He got off the train at the next stop.

It's not the first time I've run across a Vietnam vet on the street who looks as if he's down on his luck. But it's just a reminder this Memorial Day to remember not only those who have died serving our country, but also those who survived.

2.7 million Americans served in Vietnam. Many veterans were attacked personally by their fellow Americans who opposed the war. I remember my dad talking about being spat upon when he was in uniform. Combine that national rejection with horrific combat experiences, and many Vietnam Veterans still have mental health issues and they may never get the help they need.

An estimated 400,000 veterans are homeless at some time during the year. Most of those homeless veterans have some kind of mental health or substance abuse problem, according to the National Coalition for Homeless Veterans; one of every three homeless men who is sleeping in a doorway, alley or box in our cities and rural communities has at one time put on a uniform and served this country.

According to a Department of Veterans Affairs study released in March, nearly a third of U.S. soldiers returning from Iraq and Afghanistan are being found to have at least one mental health problem.

Will they too, become Missing in Action right in front of us?
Hi Betsy,
War is hell. It is so sad that so many are displaced after putting their life on the line for our country. You are so right. These vets are missing in action right in front of us. Shouldn't our goverment feel an obligation to these homeless veterans suffering from PTSD? After all, our soldiers are not desposible after use, are they?
I lost my Father last year. He was a vet of WWII. My children's Grandfather from their Father's side passed away yesterday. He was a POW in Nazi Germany after his plane was shot down.
A couple of years ago I lost a cousin in Iraq. He was only 19 and his life was just beginning when it ended.
Thank you Betsy for remembering our soldiers. We must never forget what they have sacrificed for our freedom.
Thank You Veterans!
Homeless veterans should not be forgotten, just because they survived the horrors of war. Thank you for posting this entry.
This is beautifully written, Betsy. Too many of our homeless and mentally ill are in that sad position because they served our country in time of war. It was indeed a dark period in America's history when the men and women who served so bravely in Viet Nam were shunned upon their return home. That war, like Iraq, was unpopular but that should never diminish the sacrifices of those who fought.

I think we have learned much since that dark time. Let's hope our government has also realized that it will take years and millions of dollars to help those who have returned from war with more than physical injuries. It is the very least that we owe them.
Question: How long will our soldier's PTSD last?

Answer: The rest of their lives. The younger the soldier, the worse the disease.

This extrapolated from one of the author's web pages, written and posted following Memorial Day, 1007.

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