Go to: After years of struggling, Phillips figured out what she wants to do with her life. She recently opened a gym in North Carolina where she's more interested in raising self-esteem than in creating champions. "They're like glass, that if you break them too many times, they're not going to be able to put themselves back together. They're not going to be able to come to you when they're feeling bad," she said. "And sooner or later all those feelings being stuffed down are going to explode, just like a volcano."