But it was so much worse than that. Donald Trump admitted sexually assaulting women when he said: "I just start kissing them. ... I don't even wait." He went on: "And when you're a star, they let you do it," Trump says. "You can do anything."
"Whatever you want" was Billy' Bush's response. "Grab them by the p---y," Trump continues. "You can do anything."
Republican members of the House and Senators John McCain of Arizona, Mike Crapo of Idaho
and Kelly Ayotte of New Hampshire have withdrawn their support of Donald Trump's candidacy. Many others are falling all over themselves to denounce him.
As a woman, I'm furious at the vile things Trump confessed to doing, and at Billy Bush's enabling laughter. Outraged.
But I'm even angrier at the Republicans who are only now pulling their support for this repellent candidate. Why only now?
I need hardly recount the long list of offensive things that Donald Trump has said -- and that we've seen on video -- that passed through the news cycle without the same Republican response.
A sampling: We have video of Trump telling CNN's Jake Tapper
that an Indiana-born judge should be disqualified from hearing the Trump University lawsuit because of his Mexican heritage. We have lots of instances of Trump
telling us President Obama, our country's first black president, was not an American citizen and that he made him show his papers.
We have Trump calling for a ban
on all Muslims' travel to the United States.
Friday, Donald Trump told us that the Central Park Five were guilty. The Central Park Five refers to a group of young males wrongly convicted in a brutal sexual assault of a white woman in 1989. The five -- four blacks and one Latino, mostly teenagers -- were exonerated by DNA evidence
. There was a $41 million settlement compensating them for their convictions and imprisonment.
But Trump still called these citizens of our country -- wrongfully convicted, incarcerated and then exonerated by the American legal system -- guilty.
Where were Trump's new critics -- Rep. Jason Chaffetz, or Rep. Mike Coffman, or Utah Gov. Gary Herbert, or Sen. Crapo or Sen. Ayotte -- at any point during the year's long litany of outrages that preceded the release of this "Access Hollywood" videotape?
Chaffetz has couched his withdrawal of support from Donald Trump in the context of having a daughter. If he had only a son -- and not, as he does, a son and two daughters -- would he still support Donald Trump? Putting aside the obvious critique that we stop rape culture when we teach our sons and every other man that consent is the only thing, fathers cannot just care about sexual violence against women if they have daughters.
The Republicans are scrambling because they are afraid that Trump is going to take them down with him. What I saw in that videotape was that Trump was targeting white women like he has previously targeted blacks, Mexican-Americans, and Muslims.
The Republican Party does not need any of those groups to vote for them in order to win, but it does need white women's support.
It is virtually impossible
for Trump to win without a strong majority of white women's votes. Down-ballot and other Republicans cannot win elections without white women going to the polls and casting Republican ballots. Republicans are alive to this -- they get it.
We know that either Trump does not care or does not get it because of his first apology, and his second one. In his first, he apologized "if anyone was offended." Who the hell wasn't offended? In Trump's second apology, he called this a "distraction" and suggested that we not hold against him things he said more than a decade ago, and then pivoted to the behavior of Bill Clinton, who is not running for president -- behavior that is, by the way, almost two decades old.
One last point: This Republican, anti-Trump mini-stampede is not even about white women as people deserving respect and human dignity. If it were, they would have bolted when they first heard women's accounts of his sexually abusive behavior -- heard about Jill Harth's sexual assault allegations; or read David Cay Johnston's chapter "Imaginary Lovers" in his book, "The Making of Donald Trump;" or recently learned that more than 20 people from "The Apprentice" cast and crew were interviewed and described Trump's lewd behavior.
Why Republicans' outrage now? This is not about believing women, this is instead about a video, offering proof -- in Trump's own voice -- of his sexual abuses and his debasement of women. It has gone viral and as such cannot be ignored, as much as they might otherwise have been inclined to do.
Suddenly it is harder for white and mostly male Republicans to come away from November 8 with a win.