"I want to remember him the way I last saw him leaving my home earlier that evening," she told CNN's Alisyn Camerota on Thursday. Her son, Philando Castile, died Wednesday evening after he was shot by an officer who pulled him over in a traffic stop in Falcon Heights, Minnesota. Philando Castile's girlfriend live-streamed on Facebook the moments after the shooting.
Valerie Castile and Philando's uncle, Clarence Castile, gave a 23-minute interview in which they talked about Philando's life and what it's like to be black in America.
Just a few hours before his death, Philando and his sister talked about their concealed carry permits at their mother's house. "My daughter said, 'You know what, I really don't even want to carry my gun because I'm afraid they'll shoot me first and ask questions later.'"
"I think he's just black in the wrong place."
Valerie Castile maintains that her son was a law-abiding citizen, and says she thinks the officer who shot him was "trigger happy."
"What's the difference in complying and you get killed anyway?"
Philando grew up knowing he should always comply with the police, Valerie says. "I always told them, whatever you do, when you get stopped by the police, comply, comply, comply."
She and Clarence believe he did so in this situation, even though the live stream did not start until after he had been shot.
"He's no thug."
Philando's been consistently employed, Valerie says, working since age 15 and paying taxes since age 18. Clarence says the last conversation he had with his nephew was on Mother's Day, when they talked about his job in a school cafeteria and what he was saving for retirement.
"That man is a destroyer, and he came into our lives and done something and took something from us."
The Castile family says they want justice for Philando and that they hope the officer responsible will be sent to prison. "If I can be held accountable for what I do, these officers should, too," Valerie says.