(Matador Network) -- Matador's destination expert on Japan lays out the country's avoidable attractions ... and what to do instead.
1. Don't... play pachinko
Pachinko is one of the few ways to legally gamble in Japan, but don't be lured into a parlor thinking you'll see Vegas-like shows. The place is beyond loud, and full of cigarette smoke.
The games themselves should be reserved for a 10th circle in Dante's Inferno. Imagine a pinball machine with a computer screen display; once you pull the lever you have literally no control as to where the ball ends up.
Just like in Vegas, you'll find burnt-out slot jockeys mechanically inserting yen, winning once every 27 days. Fun fun.
Do... sing karaoke
A karaoke booth with an all-you-can-drink special is a much better alternative if you want to be surrounded by video screens and loud noises.
It's nothing like a country-western karaoke bar in the U.S.
All the booths in Japan are private, so you can only make an ass of yourself in front of close friends.
The Shidax chain is my favorite, but every town should have at least one place to sing.
2. Don't... climb Mt. Fuji when there's a line
Fuji is swamped with foreign and Japanese tourists in the official hiking season (which peaks in August), and completely overwhelmed during the Obon holiday week.
By this, I mean you'll have to wait in line the entire climb and struggle to crop people out of your photos.
Do... climb in the off-season
Late September and October would be "safest," with minimal snow, but if you want the trek to yourself, bring the right gear and see if you can get permission from the 5th station to go in November or December.
Obviously, this can be rather dangerous, and I don't recommend it to anyone who doesn't have mountaineering experience. Attempting the ascent early, in May or June, can be just as risky with the rains.
3. Don't... drink at the "Lost in Translation" bar
The film-famous establishment is located at the top of the Park Hyatt in Tokyo's Shinjuku area and should be avoided by all but the most fanatical Johansson/Murray fans.
Unless you enjoy paying 4,000 yen (about $50) for a fruit and cheese platter.
Do... enjoy city views elsewhere
The gallery and coffeeshop atop Roppongi Hills immediately comes to mind.
4. Don't... pay to dress like a geisha
This is an activity many Kyoto guesthouses and hostels offer for the ladies (maybe the men too?).
For about 10,000-30,000 yen ($125-370), depending on services offered and time allowed, your face will be painted pale white, your hair arranged in traditional geisha style and your body stuffed and folded into a slim silk kimono.
Why? For photos to send home and the chance to see what geisha experience. Sometimes you're allowed to take a short walk outside in full regalia and watch the reactions of startled Japanese men and tourists thinking, "Wow! A real geisha! Get the camera!"
Unfortunately, it's just not worth it; with foreign noses, eyes and facial features, we simply look ridiculous.
Do... meet the one foreigner who can pull it off
American-born Sayuki, the first foreign geisha, currently working in the Asakusa district of Tokyo: http://www.sayuki.net/
5. Don't... travel far and wide for cherry blossoms
Imagine you've just flown into Tokyo one Sunday in April; those flowering trees that have inspired thousands of haiku and drunken hanami (viewing parties) are now in full bloom and ripe for the watching.
Instantly, you think: "I've got to get to the best viewing spots in the country, quickly!" Many travelers do this, following the spread of the sakura (cherry blossoms) from the south of Okinawa in February all the way to Hokkaido in May.
If you ask me, it's not worth the effort.
Do... check out your local sakura
The very best blossoms might be right where you are. Every city, town and prefecture in Japan has a great place to lay down a blanket, crack open an Asahi and view the petals falling as gently as snow.
I won't deny there are some great trees out there, but don't feel pressured to rush out of town. Cherry blossoms bloom for only one week, and even with reliable sakura forecasts, it's difficult to schedule a holiday precisely around full bloom.
6. Don't... restrict your WWII studies to Hiroshima
Japanese World War II history goes way beyond Hiroshima City's Peace Museum, A-Bomb Dome and Paper Crane Memorial.
By all means, visit each of those, but once you finish...
• Take the train over to Nagasaki and tour its Peace Park. Did you know Kokura was the original target on August 9th, but cloud cover caused the pilot to divert to Nagasaki?
• Really go off the beaten path with the Kamizake Museum in Chiran, Kagoshima Prefecture. Hundreds of letters are on display, written by pilots as goodbyes to their families.
• Visit the controversial Yasukuni War Memorial shrine in Tokyo, which honors the spirits of those fallen.
7. Don't... see Japan through emerald glasses
Most Japan newbies are on the hunt for "old Japan": Zen temples with chanting monks, samurai warriors parading the streets.
But the truth is, even though a few pockets of the country have successfully preserved it, that Japan has been fading from existence since the 1960s.
In "Dogs and Demons: The Fall of Modern Japan," Alex Kerr writes about how visitors to Kyoto struggle with its modernity and thirst for the old. Seeing a sight like monks raking gravel at a traditional temple creates a dream-like impression of the city that tourists seem to prefer to reality.
Do... question the value of unchecked modernization
At some level we all appreciate the fancy robots and electronics in Akihabara, the high-speed trains, the capsule hotels. I'm not saying you shouldn't enjoy your Japanese holiday by reaping all the benefits of modernization.
Just be aware of some of the things the country has given up to get to this point.
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